Sunday, January 18, 2009

7 Things Teenage Boys Most Need

Interview With Spiritual Director of Adolescents

WASHINGTON, D.C., JAN. 13, 2009 (Zenit.org).- Being the parent of an adolescent boy is legendary for its difficulty. But according to one priest who acts as a spiritual director and confessor for high school boys, just keeping in mind seven points can make for a better relationship with adolescent sons.

Legionary of Christ Father Michael Sliney suggests the following seven necessities for parents of adolescent boys:

1. Clear guidelines with reasonable consequences from a unified front; cutting slack but also holding boys accountable for their actions.


2. Reasonable explanations for the criteria, guidelines and decisions made by parents.


3. Avoiding hyper-analysis of boys' emotions and states of mind: avoiding "taking their temperature" too often.


4. Unconditional love with an emphasis on character and effort more than outcome: Encourage boys to live up to their potential while having reasonable expectations. To love them regardless of whether they make it into Harvard or become a star quarterback.


5. Authenticity, faith and fidelity should be reflected in parent's lifestyles.


6. Qualities of a dad: Manliness, temperance, making significant time for family, putting aside work, and being a reliable source of guidance.


7. Qualities of a mom: Emotional stability, selflessness, loving service and extreme patience.

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These guidelines are so needful in our present society.


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Blogger Paul said...

Excellent article. Thanks

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